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Could someone please enlighten me?

Okay, I repeatedly state that I will *never* claim to understand what goes on in a man's brain, but what gives?

Feast or famine - is there something about being relatively comfortable with her present dating status that makes a woman MORE appealing? Is it an aura of confidence and self-assuredness, or just a full moon?

Or is it a matter of wanting something you can't have? Not one, not two, but three different men I've known for awhile were being extremely attentive over the course of the evening. Another friend who was quite amused by the whole thing was teasing me about the whole thing - he's known me for two years as being single and not really dating within our group. He asked what was up, and I had to say, "Nothing". Because although I had been really interested in Jon at one time, it never got off the ground, let alone progressed. My switch turned off, due to lack of interest/stimulation......
Monica and I talked about it on the way out, and she totally understood where I was coming from....

On a side note, ginger931, if you haven't been by the G-Man recently, you should stop by and say hello. Matt finally made a major change and cut all his hair off this week. Looks great, and I am sure mal would approve. He resembles Brendan Fraser, only leaner and cuter!



Aug. 22nd, 2003 06:59 am (UTC)
Re: boys, too.
For boys:
yes, I discussed with another biologist friend, and how it relates to mate selection in other species. The robust male is the most desirable. Being surrounded by lots of females makes it more appealing....